Why am i too scared to ask a girl that i like out?

Answer 1

I have no indication as to your age group or relationship experience level so I am going to assume that you're relatively new to these matters. Every man, regardless of his age or experience level, feels some anxiety when first approaching a woman to ask her out. This anxiety is due to the fact that we men are not the real deciders in the relationship game. We like to fool ourselves into thinking that we are when in reality we are not. Women are the ones who make the decision to enter into a relationship with a man.

When you want to ask a woman or girl out the best way to approach her is to be honest with her, but try to avoid opening comments about her appearance, women hear these constantly. Instead, focus on the interests you have in common, the activities you both enjoy or, better yet, something that you've observed that she is interested in. Your opening comments should convey the message that you are interested in her for herself and not just her body (even though this may be closer to the truth).

Your experiences with women will add up over time, giving you more confidence and assurance in relationship situations. But, it is best to keep in mind that no one "scores" every time out, sometimes your advances will meet with rejection. This is an inevitable consequence of the male's role in the dating game.

Answer 2

You might be afraid of her answer, but you have to tell yourself that you have to do it before someone else dose. You'll never know unless you try and you have to have the guts to do it.

Answer 3

well, if you didnt like him/her, that was the right thing to do. dont ask someone out because of a dare, do it because you like them:)