Where can you find a diamond in a rough?

Answer 1

This question intrigued me.... The term "Diamond in a rough," is so cliche. It is not where you can find a diamond in a rough, but rather what you make it. What I mean by that is: "A diamond in a rough" is a metaphor. It's not something tangible, or that you can just look at and find. Nor, is it something that you will be able to notice, or visualize rather instantly. It is obtained with time. It is everything you make it. It comes with development.

You develop a diamond in a rough. Meaning the effort you put into improving that other person, and developing their qualites, mentatlity, self worth, self esteem, self respect, and personality, will make them that diamond. This is self improvement in the making.

Any person can be a diamond in a rough, respectively. It's not neccesarily a "Pretty Woman" storyline, where you take a person that has nothing and help them obtain everything. I believe a "Diamond in a rough" is finding the true value of oneself. Meaning reaching your full potential, and always acheiving more. It's a never ending cycle. You have to be willing to sacrifice, love, respect, and most of all strive for greatness together.

To aquire a diamond requires unselfishness. It has to be mutual, otherwise it will cause insanity (contining to do the same actions expecting a different outcome.)

If being a diamond is what you and the other person want, and work together to achieve, you will be flawless.