when a wife cheat she loss part of her soul, who she is? and never going to be able to find pace in her heart, and will have no respect for her self for long time to come, she will loss what make her a wife.....
It varies from person to person, but cheating wives may feel hurt and pain during or after the affair itself, as well as when the affair is discovered by their partner. The realization of the consequences and impact of their actions can also bring about feelings of hurt and pain.
Cheating man can feel the hurt too. They do it when they have no one left to talk to and feel alone.
Mostly the men who cheat do not feel the pain after the affair. They just enjoy their life as usual. But if they do they feel it after they encounter someone really bad.
* As to how sorry the cheating spouse is depends on the individual who cheated. Some men make a mistake once and feel guilty and heartbroken when they realize how they have hurt their spouse or children; other men feel no remorse for cheating and are just sorry they got caught.
It isn't just a matter of the wife would do learning about the affair, but how hurt the wife would be and how crushed and shocked she is that she put so much trust into her husband. Once a bond of trust has been broken it is difficult to earn it back and sometimes it cannot be earned back. Some wives may give their husband a second chance if he has not cheated before; some won't. Other wives may have the attitude 'You started the cheating so that means I can too!' Other wives may not accept their husbands having an affair at all and go into immediate divorce proceedings. Cheating is low; spineless and the cheater generally pays dearly for that mistake.
If you are talking about cheating on a test then you hurt the friends that study hard and you don't. In other words you would cheat to get higher marks and that would be unfair to those friends that do study harder for their tests. If you are talking about cheating with another person then most good friends feel cheating is cheap; hurtful and back-stabbing.
Sometimes two people that get married find they are not compatible with each other and fall out of love and if the man has an affair he may fall in love with the other woman and although cheating is not the right thing to do if he left his wife he does not love for the other woman then he made the right choice. If he still loves his wife then he has hurt her deeply by cheating with another woman and he could well have lost a wonderful and loving person over an affair. Often the other person in the affair is not all the married man thinks they are and he will be the one to pay the price.
Most people who have a conscience would feel haunted by the fact they are cheating on their husband and the affair would suffer because of it. Also you could run the risk of being caught by your husband and some men are not willing to forgive so easily when hurt that badly. If you love your husband then it would be wise of you to end the affair immediately. If you do not love your husband then do not keep cheating, but let your husband know the truth and file for divorce and then, and only then should you be seeing this other man. When in doubt put yourself in the shoes of your husband!
ANSWER: I think it depends on what kind of situation a couples are in. But one thing I know, most women who discovered their husband's infidelity will feel hurt, betrayed, and confused and I was one of these women's who felt this way when I discovered my ex love affair with the woman he met on a dating site. My world change and my children was hurt as well. Either way the married woman's life will never be the same anymore.
cheating and letting him walk in on it, but i don't recommend that.
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When a man cheats on his wife he has broken the bond of trust and has deeply hurt his wife. She is hurt because she trusted him and thought he loved her and she is hurt and angry over the thought of her spouse sneaking out and having an affair making her look like a fool. That memory will always be with the wife, but, if they try at their marriage it may be saved if the cheating spouse is willing to know a good thing when he has it. People who cheat on their spouses always lose in the end.
It's just like any other relationship with cheating. Although the person who was cheated on feels hurt, they also feel alone and abandoned. In this situation, the woman needs to feel wanted and needed, so she will take back her ex-girlfriend.
Stand your ground and face your husband calmly about his affair and tell him indeed his affair was important because he broke his marriage vows and broke the one thing that is most important in a marriage .... trust! Tell him he has to earn that trust back and if he doesn't like it or sees fit to seek marriage counseling then kick him out. Perhaps when he realizes that you are not putting up with his past cheating and the affair hurt you and now your bond of trust is no more he may begin to realize what he has done and take you more seriously. He appears to be living in a world of unreality if he thinks you can let his affair go and forget about it.
DONT!! cheating is far worse then anything your only showing him you DONT CARE just tell him how you feel he will respect your answer.