Looking at someone's eyes while talking to them is a learned behavior. If someone doesn't look you in the eye it may only mean they were not taught to do so.
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When a speaker refuses to make eye contact, it may indicate that they are uncomfortable, insecure, or trying to avoid a connection with the listener. It can also suggest dishonesty or lack of confidence in what they are saying.
The 3 keys to listening are active listening (engaging and focusing on the speaker), empathy (trying to understand the speaker's perspective), and nonverbal communication (using body language to show attentiveness).
The element of speech delivery involved when a speaker seems to connect with the audience is called "engagement." This includes maintaining eye contact, using inclusive language, and displaying authenticity and passion. These practices help create a bond between the speaker and the audience, leading to a more impactful and effective communication experience.
A speaker can reach the emotions of an audience by incorporating personal stories, using vivid language and imagery, and connecting the topic to universal human experiences. Engaging with the audience through eye contact, tone of voice, and body language can also help create an emotional connection.
Some people may have cultural or social norms that discourage direct eye contact. Others may have a personal preference or discomfort with eye contact due to anxiety or shyness. It's important to respect individual boundaries and communication styles when it comes to eye contact.
Try to catch their gaze when they are looking your way and hold eye contact for a few seconds before smiling and looking away. Be subtle and natural to avoid making them feel uncomfortable. Remember to also pay attention to the class and not make prolonged eye contact to avoid distractions.