What should you do if the guy that you love doesn't love you back?

Answer 1

Honest Answer : You know many people say "move on". In situations like these it's usually very difficult because the pain tends to linger far more than we would like it to. There is also the lovely act of fate, when you see that person walking down the street with another beautiful woman and the hate factor comes into being. Sometimes my dear time heals does not really help you as it should. Some people, like myself, once thought that many distractions were the answer to such a situation but you tend you find yourself back at the same situation. This means that you have not fully isolated and dealt with the problem. So here's my humble technique, if you would try it: Ask yourself these questions: -do you find him helpful to your life? -does he comfort you in time of need? -does he love you? -what about him do you love? -do you have any evidence of him loving you or showing you love? -does he phone and talk to you regularly? -did he ever tell you how he felt about you honestly and seriously? -is he kind to you? -do you the feeling he loves you? -would he want to date you? -did he ever asked you out? - does he have a friend you know? to these questions you answer, yes, no, maybe , maybe to no. then add the pluses and minuses to them to see if it is a friendship worth saving or just another relationship. After that answer, then maybe you could consider the answer below. Caveat: You must note that people are different. Some guys say nothing and their actions speak words. They seem gentlemanly but if they are too impatient with you or don't phone or try to communicate with you, it is usually a dead end. Key is to talk with your person of interest. Goodluck Throughout all our lives we have loved someone that hasn't loved us back and there is nothing you can do about it. It's no different than a guy who loves you, but you have no interest in him. Don't take it too personally because it's all about chemistry. Either we attract someone or we don't. It's time for you to move on and meet that someone special. Good luck Marcy