What should a femdom ask her slave?

Answer 1

A Femdom, or Professional Dominatrix, should always ask these three basic questions. The fourth question only if she will session without a safe word.

1). What are your hard limits?

These are activities that the submissive, slave, or masochist finds offensive or otherwise will not consensually participate in.

2). What is your level of play? Sensual, pain, punishment?

__A). Sensual, : no pain, no marks, welts

__B). Pain, : some redness no welts or marks,and at most she will make her slave say ouch.

__C). Punishment : redness, trophy take home marks and welts, with the intent of making the slave cry and sometimes beg for mercy. Typically the slave is not allowed to safe word during the administering of the punishment.

3). What are your interest or fantasies? Or shall I pick and choose the activities? Save this last part for the Femdom you know and implicitly trust.

4). Do you require a safe word? Always answer yes!

Note: I am not an authority or definitive source on this subject. These are the questions that ladies experienced in this activity have asked me.

Answer 2

A femdom may ask her slave to articulate their boundaries and limits, discuss their desires and fantasies, and provide feedback on their experiences. Communication is key in maintaining a safe, consensual, and fulfilling dynamic.