He finds her attractive and not you.
Being attractive is subjective. Who one person finds attractive another may not.
Answer Could be that she finds you attractive, why not follow her and see if she minds joining you for a coffee. What have you to loose.
When he finds you infuriating but attractive
Nipple
No, but it does mean he finds you physically attractive
homosexual
throw yourself at him
She finds you quite attractive and could be comparing you to them.
Without seeing a picture it is hard to say if a guy is attractive. Whether or not a man is attractive is a matter of personal opinion, what one person finds attractive another may not.
When you don't sleep with a guy, but he still finds you attractive then he's a gentleman; honorable and loves you and is willing to wait until you are willing to sleep with him. He sounds like a keeper.
What may not be attractive to one person may be attractive to another. There is a very good chance that someone somewhere finds Aang Sokka or Zuko attractive.