What is a sissy maid and how do you become one?

Answer 1

A "sissy maid" is a cross-dressed submissive male engaged in what is sometimes called "domestic service" fetish play. Typically, the male dresses in the stereotypical (sometimes to the point of parody) style of a maid or other female domestic servant from a Western country circa late 18th to early 20th century. The subject's masculinity and their status as an equal of their fellows is thus simultaneously belittled. (Hence "sissy" and "maid.") Fetish scenes usually involve actual domestic work (such as cooking, table service, and cleaning) and often personal grooming services (such as pedicures, running baths, brushing hair, laying out clothes).

The "sissy maid" is directed in these activities by their play partner, (commonly a female, but sometimes another male) who takes the role of employer/owner ("Mistress" or "Master," now archaic titles that are contemporaneous with the historic costume of the maid). Various verbal and physical humiliations are usually layered on top of the demeaning implications of the work and dress. It is not unusual for some sexual activity to also take place, although there are situations in which the sexually charged cross-dressing and fetish submission is all that occurs between the two people.

"Domestic service" is frequently combined by couples with other forms of BDSM activity. As with any other fetish activity, there is a wide variety of commitment, from married couples who just talk about it as fantasy in the bedroom to people who publicly live their fetish lifestyle - and their fantasy of being a "sissy maid" - 24/7/365.

To become one, you need merely find a partner who is interested (or at least willing) to dominate you in this way. Personal ads and activity groups are a common way of meeting like-minded fetishists. Professional Dominatrices are a way to indulge in the fetish for brief periods at a price, but remember to first make sure that the activity is not considered prostitution (and therefore illegal) in your locality. (It is legal in many large US cities).

It's also possible to serve as a maid for a woman who is not interested in anything other than having her cleaning taken care of. Believe it or not, there are many women who would jump at the chance of having their very own maid provided you can convince them you're not going to try anything untoward - alas, this is easier said than done. To attract such women, you'll need to tailor a personal ad towards their needs rather than your own, emphasizing how you can be of service rather than what you get off on.

Although this may be true a real sissy maid needs more than just cleaning house for a woman and leaving . I am not talking about sex either . Most sissies love to please . They need to know her services are enjoyed and you are enjoying the fact that this sissy is here to do your chores