Do what you think is best.
do you want him to touch you there. if not then say so.
if you do then just be careful (:
Get your own boyfriend...
No because whats a the point of having a boyfriend
Questions you should ask is why does he want to harm your ex.
If you want to, and he wants to, then you should do it.
Touch his hand and if he grabs yours he does, if he doesn't react then he doesn't.
It means he wants you to lick his anus (butthole)
In my opinion, I would break up with him because that means he wants sex or to touch you.
Change your boyfriend. He has no right to ask. I think you should decide from your heart.
a tell him what u mean
he can't make you touch him, he asks you and you either say "yes" or "no". when he asks you to touch him he wants you to make some kind of sexual advance which shouldn't be a command but a question.
If your boyfriend wants to and has those feelings he will do it when he wants to and is ready. Don't expect it just because your dating because that does not always mean they are in love with you.
It is a discussion you should both have before you decide to marry.