What if you are always the one to call him?

Answer 1

Good one! He may just assume that is the way the relationship is going up to now; and that's alright. If you don't think it's worth it, that's your call. That's why it's a good question. Is he's doing it because he wants power, or is this the way it turned out? Tell him to call you, and see what happens, if it's that important to you. Some guys, just like to go along with the scheme of things, and wouldn't know the difference, if you asked them to call. Quite normal. You started calling him, so, you keep on calling him. If he cares enogh about the relationship, and it's not an ego thing, he should have no problem reversing roles, and calling you for a change. Ask him! But make sure that you want to make waves. It might be he wants to be desired.