Then take it down a notch... Don't go so fast, and let her know you are sorry for making her feel pressured.
Usually a girl
VERY serious!
As you are a nice man looking for a nice girl for a serious relationship, you must find one in a pub or bar and then go steady with her.
She probably feels pressured or uncomfortable about sitting there because she isn't ready to have sex.
It seems like she means she either wants to have feelings for you or feels pressured to have feelings for you, but she's not sure that she truly does.
It sounds like you should have a conversation with her about how she feels. You need to know how serious she is about you and the possibility of a relationship, and where exactly she stands with her ex.
No. If a girl rejected you and you give her flowers, she might feel pressured or stalked. If she rejected you, she probably meant it, and you should accept that there is no possibility of a romantic relationship there.
find out if she feels the same
Depends on how old you both are. If either of you are 15 or under, no relationship should be considered "serious." If you are older, then it doesn't matter how many relationships she has been in, you have to start somewhere.
* 'Ex' means the relationship is over and you have no right to ask him about his new girl, nor do you have to tell him about someone you may be serious over. It's a new relationship and he may not want to hurt you with details about her (he obviously feels awkward) and it's time for both of you to part company and move on with your lives.
I am sure there are lots of ways a normal relationship can become abusive but there is one that sticks in my mind: A serious relationship. It is because if you are mainly the girl in a relationship (it is mostly the girl playing the victim and the guy playing the abuser) you are more into love than he is so therefore you push yourself into that serious relationship. As he knows you pushed yourself into the relationship he thinks he can control you now and since he knows it is serious he thinks that you won't run away because you love him.
When there is kissing and heavy touching.