If you are not gay, and a guy is calling you gay, it means he's a bigot who is using the word "gay" wrong.
Kiss him.
I would simply say "thank you". I am not sure what gay sounds like, but it is hardly something that I am ashamed of.
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Try going to a gay/lesbian bar, or check personal ads.
AA usually means African American. It can also mean "acting/appearing", as in "I am a straight a/a gay male".
gay white male
In gay ads, "FF" typically stands for "femme-to-femme," referring to women who are feminine in their presentation and behavior. It is often used to indicate a preference for feminine women in terms of romantic or sexual attraction.
Some personal ads may contain information about whether a person is male or female, straight or gay, what one's hobbies might be, and whether one likes to travel.
Looking online, it seems like there are a lot of sources. Personal ads, bars, social gatherings.
Friends With Benefits
I think it stands for sado-masochistic sex which is sex were one person plays the dominant role who inflicts pain on the other person (the masochist). The masochist enjoys feeling paint.
Usually, in male-to-male ads, the abbreviation TT refers to "Total Top", or a man who identifies himself SOLELY as the dominant(top) role in gay sex. In the range you usually have Total Tops- Top/Vers (meaning versatile but mostly top), Vers Bottom (meaning versatile but mostly bottom), bottom, and then a variety of other phrases to refer to extreme bottoms, i.e. "pig bottom", "power bottom", etc.
No, the cherry tattoo does not necessarily mean that someone is gay. Tattoos can have personal meanings and interpretations unique to the individual, and may not always be indicative of sexual orientation.
Unfortunately, I think not :(
The acronym MSM does not necessarily mean a homosexual. It is a commonly used abbreviation in medicine and psychology to denote men who have sex with men (MSM).