What does it mean when your boyfriend tells you he thinks you need to spend some time alone do some soul searching?

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It means he has someone else in mind he's hoping to see over the weekend or to hang with or meet up with other than you. You're right. He does have issues, like "honesty" for one.

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He may just need a break from the 'togetherness.' Everyone needs time alone once in a while, and some people need and value some solitude more than others.

Do you spend all of your free time together? Do you both have plenty of space and time to do things apart from each other? If not, then your relationship is not all what it should be.

But it doesn't mean he's cheating on you.

I don't know why so many people feel the need to stir up sh*t by telling people the only possible motive for any kind of unusual behavior is cheating. It's irresponsible and just plain malicious.

But why are you asking us what it means? Why don't you just ask him? Without making it sound like you are worried or suspicious, of course. Clinginess and unfounded jealousy are very unnattractive, not to mention annoying.

He probably wants you to discover more about yourself because he's not feeling you. Maybe you're not being yourself and he feels bored around you. Try to be more mysterious but talk, have fun, and laugh at the same time. Let him find out some stuff but while he do, have all the fun. Another thing is maybe he's wanting a little break. Needs to take a deep breath and live in fresh air for a moment. Give him space to explore the world too. Dont just stick together.