if your a girl and he says this he is trying to show you he is interested and if your a guy and a guy says this he is secretly trying to tell you he is gay and wants your reply for him to know if you are i have had a guy tell me this and im a guy and i asked if he was and he told me no so many times but i eventually got him to admit he is and if your a homophobe dont be a jerk about you cant change how people are just leave it alone