i think it means when you let yourself get pushed around or you get hurt real easily.
If a guy calls you "soft," it could mean that he perceives you as gentle, caring, or sensitive. It may also suggest that he sees you as emotionally vulnerable or easily influenced. The interpretation may vary depending on the context and tone in which it was said.
If a guy calls you "kid", it is a term of endearment.
a bodybuilt guy
They are calling you effeminate and soft.
bathroom
he wants it.
When a guy calls you a "TREE" it means he also calling you tall. Which isn't as bad really.
That your easy to Get into bed
Its a term of endearment.
Get rid of him!
it means your UGLY!
he's flirting with you
I am a GIRL. That means they are FLIRTING with you! Congrats!