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It's a long shot for a friendship to develop even in an open marriage. It is also way beyond any reasonable expectation to ask someone to even try. Spousal relationships are meant to be only between the married couple. There is not any acceptance of a third party into a committed or married relationship, even in these days when almost anything goes.

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This is a bit insulting, but are you really serious? Are you willing to be such a good friends with your spouse affairs partner that you don't care if the two of you has one thing in common, shared a husband or maybe a wife.

Yes you or we can't never be friends to our spouse affair partner for a reason that he or she might brag how your spouse loves the quality of this person. Are you willing to accept that he or she might tell you the fun things that they did together, especially in bed...

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