Same sex spouses face many of the same problems faced by opposite sex spouses. If the marriage fails they must get a divorce and their property will be divided as in any legal marriage. In addition, they also must cope with discrimination, the ignorance of others, and officials who are not yet experienced in treating same sex spouses with all due respect.
A marriage counselor or a family attorney can perhaps help in dealing with marriage problems.
no marriage is perfect
You negotiate in business and not marriage; it is called 'communication skills' in a marriage. If there are problems in the marriage or some bad habits in the marriage that need to be rectified then go for a walk together; sit down when it's private where the two of you can discuss without yelling or flinging accusations as to how you can better any problems in your marriage or how to stop bad annoying habits.
Losing your job can cause problems with your personal finances. Finding out your husband or wife is cheating on you can can problems in your marriage. Having an auto accident can cause medical problems.
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I don't think there is anything online that can really help you with your marriage problems. The best thing to do is to probably go with your spouse to a marriage counselor.
no, kia is not having marital problems.
Early marriage might be a problem for some in the way their relationships go. Being too young or not knowing one another well enough can cause a lot of hardship in a marriage.
In order to get help from a marriage counselor generally the two spouses need to be present so each one can discuss their problems in the marriage and the marriage counselor can decide what tools he/she can give you to help iron out the kinks in your marriage. You cannot drag your spouse to a marriage counselor as they obviously feel threatened and probably blame you for everything or are afraid of being blamed for the problems in the marriage. If you want to continue with your marriage you could see a psychologist (studies human behavior and cannot prescribe medications) and they can at least give you peace of mind and offer you some solutions to your problem. At least if you see the psychologist you will know what to do about your marriage and if the problems in your marriage warrant you to make a decision whether to stay in the marriage or leave.
If your wife does not want to talk about marriage problems it could mean you have discussed your marriage problems before and nothing has changed to improve the relationship or, she may be thinking of leaving the marriage or she may be seeing someone else. It is important that you have good communication skills and since your wife refuses to talk about your marriage problems then you will have to be blunt in asking if she wants out of the marriage. If she still does not answer then tell her you cannot live in a marriage where the two of you don't try to resolve your problems and divorce seems to be the only way out. This may shock her into talking or, she may agree to a divorce.
Yes, Marriage Seminars benefit couples with marriage problems, but only if the individuals in the relationship are open minded and will accept the help. There is a percentage of men that often refuse to seek help for marriage problems mainly out of fear of airing their dirty laundry in public to fear of being blamed for the marriage problems. The Marriage Seminars are not meant to put blame on one person or the other as a couple, but to open up new doors and good tools to a healthier and stronger marriage. If the couple is serious about getting help and know they will follow the recommendations of the Marriage Seminar then it will help.
When a couple is having marriage problems it is wise to choose a marriage counselor, but the two spouses must be in agreement to do so. A marriage counselor is not there to blame either partner for any weaknesses or wrongs they may have done, but to give them the tools to resolve marriage problems that will certainly come up in their marriage. Family and friends can encourage the couple, but neither should try to fix the marriage problems. The spouses in the marriage would not have the problems they do if they had the skills to deal with the problems in the first place. The most important skill to learn in a marriage is good communication skills where two people take time out for each other every evening even if it for a half an hour to an hour and go over any problems they may have without blaming each other or yelling.