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Should you tell your partner that u need a break after his affair?
Kittybooboo
absolutly if the affair has caused tension between the two of you. taking time off also gives you the chance to try and heal over what happened. they say absense makes the heart grow fonder, meaning if your head over heals for this person time apart is just what u need. if you dont give yourself time to heal the thoughts of him cheating will continue to weigh on your mind
Different person..." honey please be careful, if he cheated once what do you think he will do when you are NOT there. that would be his excuse to do it again... "you left me and I was lonely!!
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How do you get over an affair which was perfect till one partner lost the desire is confused wth stress at work and homeStress not related with us we love our spouses also and were happy in our affair?
You should not of been having an affair in the first place. If you really loved your spouses you would not have begun the affair, nor would you feel the need to get over one.
Should I have my wife have an affair to make up for me having an affair?
what do you mean should you let her have an affair. If you wife wanted to have an affair she does not need your approval. Did, you get her approval. You sound somewhat stupid.
You feel guilty about having an affair should you stop?
You wouldn't be asking this question if you didn't already feel there was something problematic about what's occurring. When you invest most of your focus and energies into an affair, you put other things on the shelf--your spouse/partner and your children (if any). By seeking a emotional escape with a lover, you're turning away from reality, which includes the reasons you're unsatisfied in your current life. What is missing from your life that you feel is met by the affair and your affair partner? The problems that were in your life before the affair started haven't gone away, it's just easier to ignore them when you're on the emotional 'high' that an affair creates. When that high fades for either you or your lover you'll be back to square one. You (personally) still will not be satisfied with your life. The problem with an affair is that both lovers live in a bubble--never planning on the major fallout that would occur if the affair was found out. Would you leave your spouse/partner for your lover? Would they leave their current partner for you? Can you accept that you will be seen as untrustworthy, based on your secrets and deceits? Will you be OK with being gossiped about, and possibly having your children exposed to it? Are you prepared for the possibility being asked by your spouse to leave your home and your family? What do want out of your marriage/relationship? If you want to stay with your spouse/partner, you need to focus on that relationship by ending the affair now. If you no longer want to be in you current relationship, you need to do the most integral thing for everyone concerned--notify your spouse/partner that you are ending the relationship. It is then up to you and your affair partner to decide if you have anything worth pursuing in real life.
Do you need to use another form of contraceptive during the break week of your pill?
you need not use an oral contraceptive pill, during the break of a week of your pill. You can ask your partner to use a condom for that night.
Why teachers should have a vacation?
they need a break
How often do you need tested if HIV negative 3 years ago?
If you have had no new partners, and your partner is monogamous, you don't need retesting. You should be retested if you have a new partner.
I am having an affair and i don't feel guilty about it WHAT SHOULD i do?
What do you feel you should do? What do want for yourself in another year, two years, five years down the road? Keeping the current status quo, being fully with your affair partner or being fully in your primary relationship? You enjoy the benefits you get from your lover and also the benefits you get from your primary relationship, so you need to ask yourself why you are questioning your own actions now. You wouldn't be here if you weren't. You are in the typical affair denial 'bubble'; you're relying on your string of lies to keep your bases covered and keep you from getting busted. You're reaping the majority of benefits, so you believe (erroneously) that you have the majority of control over the situation. You're relying on the person you're cheating with to be discreet, to not demand a full commitment, to not get tired of your games and leave the affair. You're relying on your partner not to have suspicions, to not snoop and find evidence of your affair, to not be the one to leave the relationship. No cheater ever thinks they will be found out. But what about all the consequences you can't control? A possible pregnancy, STI, the affair partner becoming a stalker or threatening to tell your partner or spouse if you attempt to end the affair? How are you going to deal then? It's a moot point if you're guilty over the affair you've engineered or not; what matters is at some point, the crap will hit the fan for you if you continue with the current situation.
What do you do when your faithful but your partner isn't but says they don't want to lose you?
You need to break up if your partner isn't ready to change or get his acts toghter,there's no point being in relationship where there's no trust
What should you do if she is in constant denial about her involvement in an affair?
whats your question.....does she think she didnt do it... or is she just saying she didnt do it? DO YOU HAVE PROOF? OR ARE YOU ACCUSING HER OF AN AFFAIR? YOU NEED TO BE MORE SPECIFIC. E
What to do with an affair with a married man who wants to have a child?
tell him you should adopt a child in need like an orphan
Husband cheated on me and they are still friends?
You can't work on the issues in your marriage with your husband until he's a full partner in the marriage again. This is impossible unless he ends the affair completely--which he hasn't done. An affair doesn't truly end when the sex ends, it ends when the affair partners cease contact with eachother. Keeping in contact only feeds the emotional high both parties got from the affair. Unfortunately, this also sounds like gaslighting---your husband and the affair partner are claiming to be only friends, while there is still an emotional (and possibly sexual) relationship going on without your knowledge. Your husband isn't making a choice here; he's simply hoping to keep both his marriage and his relationship with the affair partner. You need to make the best choice for yourself at this time. Privately go to an attorney, look through your finances and have an honest talk with your husband. Demand, not ask, that he make a choice---either he becomes a full partner in the marriage by going to counseling with you and completely ending contact with the affair partner (even if it means changing jobs or moving), or he needs to leave the marital residence ASAP and expect a divorce.
You are feeling a little trapped in your relationship what should you do?
You should let your partner know how you feel. If you feel like your trapped and cant go anywhere you should keep an open mind. Tell your partner that you need some space.
