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The choice to disclose your sexual orientation to anyone is your choice, and your choice only. You do not have to do anything you are uncomfortable with. Different people react differently so it is important you predict (to a rough degree) how your parents might react.

If your parents are tolerating or supportive of the LGBT culture, you should generally have little problem coming out to them. If, on the other hand, they are homophobic or have strained opinions about homosexuality, they may react more adversely and negatively.

Before telling your parents, it is a good idea to talk with a trusted friend or counsellor. This way, you have someone to support you as you go about telling your parents. Listen to their advice and take it on board.

Ultimately, the final choice to tell them is up to you. If you fear for your safety or well being, it is advisable to nottell them until there comes a better time. There is nothing worse than risking your safety and relationship with your parents at an early age. If you are dependent on them for financial support you may also consider not telling them until you can provide for yourself.

Remember that generally, your parents love you and will support you no matter what. Having supportive parents will make it easier for you to tell them. Not only this, they can give you emotional and social support throughout your life if they know about your homosexuality.

If you do choose to come out to your parents, visit the Related Question below which gives some tips and steps on how to come out to your family and parents.

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