It depends on how big of a bra you need. When I didn't really need a padded bra but I wanted one, I asked my mom and she said no. But, she did let me wear those un-padded training Bras, which helped. About a half a year later I asked her again, and she said okay. Just tell her you feel uncomfortable because people can see through your shirt. Hope I helped! :)
talk to your mum,asking her why she wont let you. think about why you actually want a bra. to feel grown up? to look cool? if you dont have any breasts then there is no point in getting a bra. maybe you could try to reason with your mum by asking your mum if you could have a bra top instead. but honestly,you dont need one unless you have breasts.
some moms want you to be honest about things and tell them when you got your period or something but if you don't want to ask your mom then just make some money and when your out with your friends buy a bra they wont care! :) the other option is to tell your mom you need a bra, what i do is when me and my mom are talking i randomly bring up that i need a bra, it also works when your already in a bra store so any of these things work:) hope u get that bra! :)
Well i have the same problem with my mom and I'm 12 too She says that I'm too young as well :( i feel sorry for both of us :'(
Hi, mom, I need to ask a favor. Could you help me buy a bra? Remember, your mom once got her first bra . . . it's not going to be a mystery to her.
Just say "Mom I think I'm ready for a padded bra!" If she sayys no than say mom all the girls in my class have on and I geet emberassed when I'm around them.
where? Where? What jurisdiction?
Because your mom does not want you to Grow up fast and have bigger bra than your actually boobs. And she just don't think you need need padded bra's your probably not old enough.
Yell at her.
because school is importanat. and your mom only wants the best for you and to get an education
well there probably is a reason that she wont buy you one so she probably wont
if you keep bothering her about it she will let you.hope this works!!
You can get a job, move out and support yourself and then do what you want to do.