My boyfriend is always too busy playing basketball?

Answer 1

Hm, i suspect your question is, does he care more bout Basketball then he does bout you? well, if you want my opinion. here it is: men are very passionate about their sports and we all know that, but they should be even more passionate about US, and they are if they really love us..Now, if your man actually ditches you to go off playing WITHOUT asking you or at least telling you.. then something is wrong in how much he cares. So, its either he doesnt care, or he thinks its normal and thinks you will always be there anayway. Now what you gotta do is, make it clear, that you dont like it, and possibly suggest him playing at times when you are not available. My man for example, plays at night when i am long asleep, or during PE class but only if he is sure i am ok with it. So its two possibilities, he either doesnt notice or he doesnt care. If its first then let him know gently, if its the second, then suggest he makes a choice and makes up his mind.