No, it's not okay to sleep with a guy on the second date, unless you want a one-night stand. If you want a relationship, wait at least until after the fourth date. There's no mystery, it's a simple rule you must follow if you want a relationship. So, you have to decide exactly what you want and follow the rule. About the cell phone shutting off, DEFINITELY, he has someone else! You can bet on it! If he's honest with you and committed to your relationship, he'd NEVER do that, so get rid of him ASAP, he's cheating on you!
AnswerIt depends on your feelings about the guy and whether you'd want a relationship with him or not. If you just are only interested in him sexually and aren't wanting any further relationship, it's no big deal to have (safe) sex with him now.If you find yourself emotionally as well as sexually attracted to him, it's not a bad idea to wait a while--whether that is a few weeks or months--until you both are on the same level about if you two are going to be seeing each other seriously or not. Sex sometimes clouds people's perspectives and makes it harder to be honest about how you feel about the other person.
AnswerI slept with a guy on the first date and we have been together for 4 good years. It depends on what you think. Nobody can tell you what's OKAY to you. only you know the answer to that.My now ex gf had sex with me on the second date. Put it this way. Wednesday we have our first date, it went very well. Then on Friday we have a date, go to a ball game, then a swim at a hotel pool, then back to my place for great sex (at least for me). Truth is is that it is kinda wrong for a girl to have sex with a guy on a 1st, 2nd, 3rd date, but that's not saying much for me since it goes both ways, but then again stuff happens, who says people have to wait? yes sex does complicate things and changes EVERYTHING, but sometimes you need to forget all that emotional baggage and just have sex, simple as that. I have a friend who has meaningless sex all the time with straight up trashy girls that don't mean anything to him. So people that say theirs no such thing as meaningless sex is dead wrong. Times have changed. People with morals are hard to come by. Everybody is doing everybody. Women can be manipulated by guys even if their in relationships. Its a sad sad world. No wonder people lose hope, don't play the market and resort to being at home alone....like me.
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It's ultimately up to you to decide what feels right for you. Just make sure to prioritize your safety and emotional well-being, and only do what you are comfortable with. Communication with your date about your boundaries and expectations is key.
No. Contrary to common belief, it is better to wait until you are married to take that big of a step.