Is it ok for a 14 year old to be confuse over sexual orintation?

Answer 1

A person who has never driven does not know if he would prefer driving a sports car, a sedan, a convertible or a mini-van until he has test-driven each type of vehicle. If that can be true of driving preference, it's logical to think it could be true of sexual preference. But before you start test-driving the neighbors you need to confront the question of whether you choose to believe the Torah, the New Testament, the Koran or none of the above, since God's hatred of homosexuality is clearly stated within. Gather your own data through books and interviews, then make your own decision. Whatever you decide, understand why you made that choice. Then when the time is right, try dating several different types of people from among those who are compatible with you chosen belief system, and see what "fits."

Answer 2

Yes, it is completely normal for a 14-year-old to feel confused about their sexual orientation. Puberty is a time of significant self-exploration and discovery, and many young people are still figuring out their identities. It's important for them to have a supportive environment to navigate these feelings.