Is it cheating if your spouse searches for his ex online?

Answer 1

definitely not... your spouse might want to see how they are doing now a days because i looked up my ex about a year ago and now we are great friends but not together. i don't even have a boyfriend or spouse in the way. don't get too too worried about it but just keep on the look out from a distance just to be sure. and don't end up like one of those over protective spouses. as long as you and your significant other are comfortable with one another, you will be fine .

Probabaly just curiosity, but if it becomes regular corespondence or personal face to face contact , I'd put my foot down. If your spouse accuses you of paranoia, just remind them it's partly up to him/her to help you feel secure. It's not like they are just chatting with a neighbor or workmate. These people have a history together.