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Im in love with a guy who doesnt feel the same why do i feel not good enough I'm a good person i can be good for him why wont he let me love him why wont he love me?
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∙ 12y ago
We do not, and indeed can not, choose who we love.... it happens to us.
He cannot choose to love you just because you love him - love doesn't work that way.
It's not a nice feeling, loving someone who doesn't love you, but it is better to know and NT start a relationship that yo have him pretend to love you and then to break your heart in some years time when he falls in love with someone else and tells you "But, I never loved you at all"..... that would be truly cruel, and it happens all the time because people feel unable to tell someone who loves them that the feelings are not mutual.
You say you feel "not good enough" - there must be people you know who you don't love.... but you wouldn't say "they're not good enough"... you just say "I couldn't love them".... that's how it is for him..... you just don't have whatever it is he is looking for (if he is looking for it..... he may not even be looking for a lover at the moment.)
Hard as it is to hear this, you need to move on to someone else.
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