If your girlfriend has cheated a lot in the past and became pregnant and she says it yours should you go back out with her and believe that she has changed?

Answer 1

I think you should be a good father, But you don't want to be with her anymore because it would hurt that you wouldn't be able to look at her the same. You might love her so much and not want to let her go, But for the rest of your relationship you will never trust her again. Let me guess when she cheated; Did she blame you? She cheated on you because she doesn't love you or care about you. She might change and learn to love you. But the truth is and i know you don't want to hear it. But truth is that this she doesn't give a damn about you. Sorry if that hurts. But you need to make the rite choice. I know every guy and gal likes to say that the person who cheated on them is different. But I'm sorry you are all dead wrong. It takes a person who doesn't love you or care for that matter to hurt their spouse. Listen to me I've studied cheaters and why they do what they do. You've probably noticed that every time she cheated she blamed it on something you've done. For er reason of being the low life that she was she blamed you didn't she? I'm not trying to make you feel bad kid, But she might be having your baby, or she might be having someonelse's. This girl says she wants you. But you will only find yourself in the same situation again. I've studied cheating and as to why it happens for twenty years. The only logical conclusion i have found is that most people who cheat do it because it feels good in that moment. They will always blame the spouse that they are with for why they have done it. I hope this clears things up for you. I also hope you make you choice with thinking about what i have told you. You can email me back if you want to. I will always be here.

Dr. Kelly