For many men, cheating on the spouse or girlfriend is not about love or their desire to spend their life with anyone else. Sometimes it's ego, sometimes it's for attention that they can't get from their partner, perhaps is purely sexual, and sometimes they do want a divorce but don't want to be the one to end the relationship. It's true, that a spouse that cheats may very much love their significant other; but clearly, they don't have a lot of respect for their partner.
Here the problem is as he had gone through a divorce, he might have had real bad time , and as the saying goes once bitten twice shy , he prefers to be a very good friend indeed.
There are basically two possible situations here. You may want your wife to cheat so that you will have a good excuse to divorce her, or you may want her to cheat so that you too can cheat, and everybody can have more sex while remaining married, an arrangement also known as an open marriage. Frankly, I think that honesty is the best policy. If you want a divorce, or if you want an open marriage, tell your wife what you want. There is no need to be sneaky about it. Your wife may be willing to give you what you want. If she isn't, you can still file for divorce on the grounds of irreconcilable differences.
my husband of 18yrs says he needs time but does not want a divorce. he was unfaithful.
First of all if you get a divorce there of course it is it is a divorce but if you want to go back but you don't get a divorce of course that isn't going to end it if he/she loves you he/she wants the best for you!
Move on. You need to find someone who does want to be with you.
I wouldn't want to trust him.
Of course! They totaly want to cheat on you
ethier they will cheat or they want to have sex
If you don't want to do it tell him "NO". If he loves you he should respect your wishes.
Because he loves you and doesn't want you to think anything bad about him Because he loves you and doesn't want you to think anything bad about him
you would have to say to your wife you want to divorce her and marry the girl you love.
if your boyfriend says that he loves you and doesn't want to be serious then he either just wants to get in your pants or he is just scared to be in a committed relationship so help him and either way you will be ok.