I like this girl who is my friend and im not sure if she likes me. how can i figure this out?

Answer 1

Hmmm... I'm going to have to get back to answering this at a later time, due to the amount of time it will take me to answer this type of question. This is a very complicated situation that can ONLY turn out successfully if done the RIGHT way, and no simple one liner quick answer will do the trick. First, and most importantly, I would hold off on the "getting her to think I like her" part, ESPECIALLY when you don't know is she likes you. If she's talking to you and giving you attention at at least some level, then this is a good sign because this means she must be interested to some degree - but DO NOT LET THIS TAKE YOU OFF GUARD! Remember - Anybody can be interested in you at some level. What you want is something different... and more specific - a girl who likes you as a boyfriend. Knowing how to get there without messing up is the challenge... I'm not sure how old you are, but that's mostly irrelevant in this case because the way women are programmed to operate and respond psychologically to certain things remain pretty much the same, regardless of age. With that being said, you do not want to tell her you like her or get her to think that by using words or doing all the wrong things that you think should work or looks right. There is a reason why good girls like the bad boys, and the only way to master beating all the bad and nice boys together is to learn what the "bad boy" is doing, then learn how to act this way, WITHOUT the abuse and jerk behavior. This is where it gets extremely complicated to explain... which I think I'll get into later when I have more time. Being nice and being mean are both killers when it comes to hooking up, although being nice can get her to be your friend and nothing more. The bad boy, who is unpredicable, witty, subtly caring, cocky AND funny, challenging, interesting...etc does something that the nice and mean boys lack, but unfortunately, they also tend to "not get it right" and throw in a bit of extra stuff that can be manipulative and mean. The bad boy has the ability to naturally attract women psychologically and subconsciously, without even thinking or knowing they are doing it. Finding a way to possess the same behaviors a bad boy has, WITHOUT the cruel behavior and all the wrong things is the magic trick, but this is also just an introduction to all the rules and "techniques" you must learn to NATURALLY attract a woman to you, WITHOUT having to tell her you like her. ...more on this later... (I could just sit here, provide a bunch of "rules", and tell you "do this... don't do this..." etc. But it wont do any good because you would have no idea why you're being told to do these things without an explanation. This is why I want to explain it fully instead.) _________________________________________________________ For now, let me just say: do not listen to anyone who says "just be yourself", unless doing so has made you very successful with women in the past. Once you learn how to naturally attract a woman and then take what you have learned to make it a part of your natural behavior, THEN you can "be yourself". kdm7000@Yahoo.com

Answer 2

You can try to gauge her interest by observing how she acts around you compared to others, paying attention to her body language and verbal cues. Additionally, you can try casually mentioning your feelings or asking her friends for insights. Ultimately, the best way to know for sure is to communicate openly and directly with her about your feelings.

Answer 3

Tell her this," Hey we've been friends for a while and I just ant to know, do you like me?" Trust me it'll work!