How long should you wait to call after a first date?

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AnswerIf you felt good about the date then call right away. If someone is right for you and you had a good time, playing games would be foolish. Make sure you have already told them you had a good time at the end of the date when you say good night. Then call the next day. Don't wait. AnswerWhen you drop them off at their house, or they leave, tell them how you had a great time with them. Make sure they know you had a good time, and you enjoyed their company. Then wait a few days (preferably about 3) and call, talk, or maybe ask them out again. Answer

I don't thing 3 days is a good choice because you want to make them miss you but not forget you. Let them know you had a great time then call in about 1 or 2 days.

AnswerIf it is your first date, just go home and don't call. Wait 3 days. It's the unwritten rule and works every time. Women love being treated like that. It's crazy and sounds stupid, but it works. AnswerIt makes your girl/boyfriend feel much better knowing that you had a good time.

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I do believe that 3 days its a little long to wait. It may seem as if you lied when you said you had a great time. Yes you have to give it time but 2 days, no more than that, you have to let the person miss you not forget you!

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I think you should call about 4 days after just to say that you really enjoyed it but don't get too carried away or she/he might think you are a bit weird. You could also ring about 1 week after and ask if you want to go out for lunch or a nice dinner and say you will pay so you make your boyfriend/girlfriend feel nice and so you don't feel and act cheap.

AnswerSome people say you need to wait three days, but that's not okay for all people. If you really like this person, call them in the morning. Don't make them wait for you. And don't sit round waiting for them to call if you really like him or her.

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Its up to you!

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I think the three day wait rule is stupid. If I went out with someone and they waited three days to call me I would assume he didn't want a second date. If you like someone then just go for it! Call whenever you want and don't let stupid dating rules rule over you. I personally think it's sweet when someone doesn't want to wait to talk to you.

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Waiting doesn't make any sense to me!! I have even called moments after they give me their phone number just to see if they gave me their real number.

Agreed. If you like someone, games like making them sweat is Jr high stuff. If you and them had a good time let each other know; its that easy. You can even text you had a good time a little after you leave. There are a great deal of girls who won't admit it but like to be treated like they don't matter. If you're that type of person either side, if it works for you, then good. Remember you're not getting to know the real person that way, which will end the relationship later. But as a guy you don't want to mess up your chances for another date, act toward them as you would want them to act towards you; the golden rule.

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I think that if you had a really nice time with that person the best thing to do is text them a little while after you get back just to thank them and say that you enjoyed the day/evening. This lets them know that you are interested but doesn't come across as needy. Then you can go on and make a second date if they return the text. Playing the waiting game is just daft especially as internet dating could mean the woman just moves onto someone else.

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If you are a guy you will call her after 10mins. checking if she is home safely or saying thank you for the special night. If you are a girl you will call him or text him after 10minstoo. You are going to say thank you.

Depends on the day of the week. If you get together on lets say friday. Call her on monday. Any sooner and it shows that you have no weekend life. basically leave at least one weekend after you meet open, otherwise you might look like a loser.

Just be yourself:

You should call her the next morning. It's not how long you wait it's what you say to him/her when you call her back. If you come off as needy and wanting attention she or he will assume that you are desperate and too easy. Just be yourself and feel free to let go of trying to impress everyone. If you can't be yourself at first then he or she isn't the right one for you. GOD has a plan for all of us. Just be patient and the one that feels all your emotional needs and wants will soon come into your life. My father always told me " good things come to the ones who wait." In other words after all the games have been played a woman/man is going to want someone to care and love them.

As a Guy:

I can tell you that as a guy it really depends on how the date went. If I like a girl, I'm definitely going to call or maybe text her. If it's obvious to me from the date that she's into me as well, I may not wait as long. But if she didn't really seem too interested, then I don't rush it, because I don't want to come across as too eager plus it probably won't matter anyhow, because she won't want to see me again.