How far should you go with a guy if you are 14?

Answer 1

Well im about that age so id say its ok to make out A LOT and stuff and like touch each other but dont let him feel all over you TOO MUCH and dont touch him too much either..just enough

And WHATEVER YOU DO! DONT GO ALL THE WAY!

Youll get a rep as a smut cuz TRUST ME people will find out somehow what you did so dont take off more than your bra and undies and dont even really do that cuz youll seem like a smut even then anyway dont go down on him and dont show him your body or let him show you his REMEMBER your still only 14 and youll have plenty of time for sex when your older (UGH i sound older than you!)

ANYWAY just make out and stuff and hold hands and cuddle .. you dont need sex until at LEAST 17 mabey 18 but by then youll be mature and can make good decisions on your own (omfg i sound so damn old) BUT PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF THE PERSON YOU LOVE MOST IN LIFE : Do not have sex with him! Trust me he will NOT be the one you stay with for a long time ... its just the begining of your love life friend ok?

DO NOT GO ALL THE WAY! Trust me.... Itll ruin your life...If anyone knows this.. i know this i mean he can see you in a bikini when on the beach or something but no bra and panties stuff and no fuhking! Youll ruin your life and no matter what he says or how much you think you love him... DO NOT DO IT until your SURE your ready and you WANT to like REALLY want to and if hell break up with you cuz you wont then GOOD he never liked you..if he likes you he'll understand...Just stick to making out..A LOT xD

GOOD LUCK FRiEND!! :D

I agree for the most part with what the person said above. I'm currently 16 and was considering going all the way with my boyfriend. For me personaly 14 is to young but different people see things in a different way. I completely agree that it is very unlikely that you and this person will be together for the rest of your lives. It all comes down to you and what your ready for, NOT WHAT SOMEONE IS PRESSURING YOU TO DO! If you honesly feel like you're not ready to do something (which at your age i don't think you are) then don't do it, if he loves you like he says he does then he will wait for you no matter how long it is. Your to young to be going all the way with a guy, like the person said up there, you don't want a bad reputation. Kiss, makeout, hold hands, cuddle with each other. Enjoy being young and happy without complicating a relationship with sex. Don't be in a hurry to rush things. Don't give someone something they're not going to charish.

Good luck!

B&TB

Whatever you do, DON'T have any kind of sex. That includes anal, oral, and vaginal. I agree that you can do anything else that doesn't include penetration of any kind. He can go to jail for penetrating or having sex with a minor, even if he is also a minor. He can also be charged with statutory rape. Here is a link to the age of consent in all 50 states: http://www.webistry.net/jan/consent.html . Have fun!

Im 14 and me and my ex had plains to go all the way but when he was going home after i told him i wouldnt he was killed by a drunk driver DONT DO IT!!!!!! If anyone knows it will hurt a lot worse in the long run! (but ALWAYS its OK to make out)

Answer 2

At 14, it is important to prioritize your emotional and physical well-being. It is advisable to set boundaries, communicate openly with your partner, and wait until you are older and more mature to engage in any physical intimacy. Remember, it is okay to take things slow and only do what you are comfortable with.