How do you tell you homophobic parent and your friends you are bisexual?

Answer 1

If you are only a pre-teen, your sexual identity is still forming possibly. You might feel bi-sexual now, but not later. This is the time when you are figuring out who you are. I don't see the need to tell a homophobic parent or your friends for that matter that you are bi-sexual. If you are a preteen, I am really hoping that you have not engaged in sexual relations with either sex, much less both sexes. In this case, you are probably really more accurately bi-curious. Don't rush to label yourself. Don't rush to be sexually active! You can't un-ring a bell. Very few people ever regret having waited to have sex, but MANY people regret having had sex too young/too early in a relationship.