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When lesbians flirt, the exact way they do it depends greatly on the person. Of course, it could be bisexual girls flirting, or one bisexual and one lesbian. Basically it has to be two females, yes? (Unless you know for sure that they're both lesbians.) Well, I know when I flirt with another girl, I usually:
- smile a lot
- play with my hair
- stand or sit fairly close to her and lean slightly towards her
- bite my lip a little if she asks me a "what do you think about...?" type of question
- laugh at her jokes
- lock eye contact
- wind up glancing (or staring) at her lips at some point
- compliment her (tell her I like her shirt, or her hair looks good, et cetera)
Those are the pretty much definite things. If I'm feeling bold, I might:
- compliment her. this is different from the aforementioned one because it takes the compliments a step further (complimenting her eyes, telling her I think she's pretty, saying something (usually a somewhat scanty article of clothing) looks good on her, et cetera)
- pretend her hair is messed up and fix it for her (body contact)
- pretend there's something on her shoulder or her sleeve (like fuzz or a string) and gently dust it off (and quickly drop the fake dust on the floor to hide that it wasn't really there!)
- hopefully ask if I'll see her again soon. this is tricky, though, because when both people know they're flirting, it's obvious, but if only one does, it might seem like a friendly question.
Those are just some ways that two girls might flirt. One of my friends always blushes against her will when she flirts with another girl, and sometimes she stutters. Another friend fidgets with something like her watch or bracelet - sometimes she even spins her stud earrings. (It might seem like she's bored, but she's actually nervous!)
Body contact is usually a sign of flirting. I have a straight girlfriend who knows that I'm bi, and whenever we see each other but can't stop to talk, we poke each other in the side or the stomach. We both know that either person's poke is playful, but she also knows that sometimes I do that when I'm flirting with my close girlfriends (I can't help it - those two are so cute!). Depending on how well they know each other, it might be something friendly like that, or it could also be something that's much more of a definitive flirting technique, like a hug.
Now... the hug is a very dangerous topic no matter what gender the two people "flirting" are. Hugs can be friendly. They might be loving, or apologetic. When the hug leaves friendly territory and turns into more of an intimate thing, a few things might happen. First of all, if a hug takes long enough for you to have time to think, "Okay... this is a pretty long hug..." and it's not an apologetic, or "I missed you!", or "I'll miss you!", et cetera type of hug (basically, if you thought it was a friendly hug and it takes that long), it's most likely a flirting hug. Secondly - and this depends on the hugger - if someone who generally gives gentle hugs, where you don't really feel like they're even trying to hug you back, hugs you tightly, it's most likely a more-than-just-friendly hug. If hands roam in a hug, chances are you're with someone who was flirting with you (or will be).
alot of touching and wanting to go places together.. and complaining about beiung single all the time. i know through personal experiancne :S [Excessive touching is a MAJOR indicator, but that's not very subtle, now is it?
Smiling, narrowing eyes, and standing a little closer then you normally would with someone are also pretty tell tale. Laughing at jokes that really aren't THAT funny is another way, if they're femme.
General teasing is another way, but be careful with the teasing, because sometimes it really does mean they're not fond of you.
A lot of eye contact, compliments, and body language.
Basically, in my experience, if it appears that they might be flirting with you, they probably are.
...My personal favorite is the shoulder bite and belt loop tug, but I'm not very subtle. =p]
She will be very in tune with everything you do. Look you in the eyes a lot and possibly be very touchy , feely. Eye contact is a big indicator. Like constant eye contact. Playful, gentle and compliment you a lot also
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How do you tell if someone you're hitting on is a lesbian too?
Trust your gay-dar. If the responses to your flirting are positive there is a high probability.
How do you tell your husband that you are a lesbian?
tell him the reasons why you are a lesbian...he will understand.
How can you tell a boy is flirting with you?
how can you tell if a boy is flirting with a girl and also likes her to an extent?
How do you tell if you're lesbian?
You can tell if you are a lesbian if you are attracted exclusively to other women.
Unsure Being a straight woman how can you tell if a woman is flirting with you or being just friendly. With men the body language is different and easy to tell but with women it's not.how do u tell?
Why don't you put a lesbian magazine on the ground and then see if she picks it up or looks at it for awhile.
Im a guy thats has a lesbian bestfriend we've been bf for about 4 years and now we kinda started flirting i kinda want to have fun with her if ya know what i mean lol how would i approach this?
If she's really a lesbian, all you will succeed in doing is ending your friendship.If she's really a lesbian, all you will succeed in doing is ending your friendship. Flirting is fun, but it often means nothing sexual.
What does it means when your cousin boyfriend is flirting with you?
what you have to do is tell her ASAP ! before he says you where the one flirting with him.!
How do you tell if this girl is flirting with you?
If a girl laughs at all your jokes, even when they are not funny, she is flirting with you. If a girl goes out of her way to talk to you, she is flirting with you.
Can you tell if Nick Jonas is flirting with you?
Can you tell if other guys are flirting with you? Nick's a guy, so I'm sure it wouldn't be much different than a lot of other guy's ways of flirting.
What is lesbians flirting?
Lesbians flirting refers to the act of two women who are attracted to each other showing romantic or sexual interest through playful or suggestive behavior, such as eye contact, compliments, or physical touch. It can involve subtle cues or more overt actions, depending on the individuals and the context of the interaction.
How to tell if your lessbion?
If you are a curious and need to tell if you are a lesbian, think about a woman's body. If it turns you on in a sexual way, you are likely a lesbian.
How can you tell if your in love with a girl?
Well you can by flirting
