How do you tell if a girl is playing hard to get or if she is just not interested?

Answer 1

Not easily. Play hard to get yourself and you will find out in short order.

if the girl is talks to you first a lot of times and flirts a lot, she is playing hard to get. if she just ignores you, she's not interested. its always a good idea not to text/call the girl and just wait for her to contact you first or she'll think you're annoying.

you know because they don't act like they like you but it never works

Well, I'm a female and I haven't really played hard to get before. But thinking of it, I guess it is quite obvious when she is playing hard to get. First of all, you have to tell yourself that when a girl plays hard to get, she is trying to make you do something that would please her (Perhaps writing her a love note and giving it to her in public?). Or, she could also have some interest in you, if not she would not even want to waste her precious time on you, am I right?

Secondly, you must act as if you've 'failed' to win her heart and somehow pretend to give up. If she does an action to get your attention or laughs loudly and says she's only kidding, she might be really playing hard to get. Sometimes, the girl will not say anything, but stare at you for once or twice a moment after. Try to take notice of her more! She may be nasty towards you and tease you mercilessly, but as long as she apologises and continues with be hard to get, she IS PLAYING HARD TO GET !!!

Answer 2

You obviously have a thought that she may be as you are asking this question. Always listen to your gut instinct. Not knowing what she is doing to make you think this she may be saying she will do things then back out, lead you on, get what she wants from you then ignore you until she wants something again - there could be a variety of things she will do. Competely agree with the answer above; but the main thing to remember is that the girl (or boy) will be treating you like you're the only person in the world at one point in time...and then after they break their plans with you they will act very distant. Almost as if the two of you just met. Also beware of continuous excuses for breaking dates; being overly-posessive despite the fact that you two aren't a couple; overly-curious about you're relationships with the opposite sex etc. This person wants to maintain a monopoly over you're heart / mind / body etc so they will be very manipulative and controling in their actions...if it get's this far and you haven't seen the signs one of you're friends should have pulled you to the side by now and leveled with you. After you comfirm (realize) that the person is playing games...cut them out of your life completely.