There are a few different methods.
For small sizes, you can just stretch using plugs. This is only for tiny stretches because it could cause tearing with larger gauges.
The most common way is using a taper. You do it after a hot shower and use some sort of lube, then insert the taper. Then you replace the taper with a plug.
For sizes 2ga and up, tapers aren't ideal for stretching and can be very hard to find. So, instead, you add layers of plumber's tape to your plug. You add 2-3 layers each week until you reach the next size.
You could also use weights. Weights aren't ideal because they create uneven holes because they thin out the bottom.
See your professional body piercer for guidance.
Coz for some its a tradition
Yes, they technically will, depending on the faux plug that you get. Some Faux plugs are actually bigger than the mm of regular earrings. So yes, in a way faux plugs will stretch your ear lobes, will they stretch them any size that will prevent you from still having normal ear lobes? No, most faux plugs, if they are larger than a regular mm piercing, are less than 14g.
there one alle for free ear-lobes and another allele for attached if your gene for ear-lobes is made up of two alleles for free ear-lobes your ear-lobes are NOT attached and if you have two attache-ear-lobes alleles your ear-lobes are attached
All lobes will stretch the same way. Its just that at larger sizes(1 inch +), attached lobes kinda tilt a little bit. I personally don't like that but hey, to each their own.
you stretch your lobes
Yes they can, because they could get the genes from a grandparent, or even farther back if they didn't have detached ear lobes.
Well that depends on your actual ear lobes. Small ear lobes = low stretch, Large ear lobes = bigger stretch. See you should only stretch loabes one gauge once every 30 days, this allows the tissue to expand safely without tearing the tissue. So it really depends on the sixe of your ear lobes, see a professional body piercer, they will discuss your plan and work out a safe schedule to get you up to the gauge you want.
diffrent genes you idiot
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certainly, you can try it.
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Yes "The Wildcat Collection" in England manufactures custom plugs for those who don't wish to stretch there ear lobes.