How do you know she won't cheat again?

Answer 1

You'll never know what will or wont happen. That's just called life. The only thing you can do is trust her. If she lets you down again then you know not to do it for the third time. I don't understand why people cheat, but if she really is sorry and you believe that she means it then do what you feel is right. If you're looking for certainty then you're never going to find it. The best thing to do is decide if you can really be happy if you go forward with her knowing what she has done. If you say you can as long as she doesn't do it again, then give it a try but you can never know for sure. MOst of the time people trust when there is no reason no to distrust, but in your case it's going to be hard trusting someone who already let you down. Be honest if you can really live like this..

You honestly will never know. its about how how much you trust her. if you dont trust her enough and if your now insecure because of it, i think it'd be pointless to stick around. Its not healthy to not trust your partner and to be insecure. the 2 just dont add up. Im down for 2nd chances but if she's not too sincerce then you needa let her go.