Ask her.
u go for another kiss ..lol
She dated a friend of mine in the early 1980s. I know she wasn't a lesbian then.
Talk to her alone and explain to her that being a lesbian is not your style but you still want 2 be her friend
You politely say, "I'm not interested in you because I'm not a lesbian." Or you say, "I'm so glad to hear this. I've been waiting for this moment for so long." If this is your best friend, then you'll know how to speak to her without making her upset or hurting her feelings.
* Since you are her best friend you would know if she is bisexual or has lesbian tendencies and if not, then don't risk telling her your feelings as it will cause tension in your relationship. Straight is straight!
As long as your friend has just been a good friend to you and has not tried to entice you into a lesbian relationship then her sexual preference should not stop you from being friends. Being best friends means you stand up for each other so if you are afraid that being with your best friend who is a lesbian may rub off on you (a myth) or that your other friends may think you are a lesbian because you hang out with her then stand strong and don't let a good friend get away because of their sexual preference. If you are not sure they are a lesbian then continue on with the friendship and stop guessing as to whether she is a lesbian or not. Society has a bad habit of labeling people with the wrong label. Example: Your best friend hangs out with only women and you don't see her date. This does not necessarily mean she is a lesbian, but could simply be shy or is not ready to date because she hasn't found the right person.
You don't. Your friend either already is one, or is not and will not be one. Now, it is possible she is a lesbian, but is not letting people know this. If you really are best friends, you would be in the position to know how to approach her in a supportive way.
In all practicality, unless you are female, at best you can be only her friend.
Well, first of all, you want to make SURE that your best friend is showing signs of a lesbian. If not, you could take a risk by confronting her and telling her how you feel. What are the risks of telling my best friend I am a lesbian? A question most people would ask, most likely. You could end up making her feel uncomfortable around you, and basically losing your friendship, if she turns out not being a lesbian. But, if your best friend was a true friend, she would understand the way you are and still be your best friend, even though she may not be a lesbian. Possibilities: She could be BI. (Someone who is interested in both genders.) Which means she could show signs of being a lesbian, but is not fully interested in that one gender (girls.) she could also be intersted in men. If I were you, I would make sure that she was a lesbian, or BI, before putting your friendship on the line. This is coming from me, my opinion only: If I were your best friend, I would feel a little upset, since I am not lesbian and all. I have a lesbian friend and she knows for a fact that I am NOT lesbian or BI. But, she still feels feelings for me. This upsets me because she should know, that knowing her for many years, I would probably feel the slightest of uneasy or feel uncomfortable, (Not that I don't love her, family wise.), and yet she still goes and confesses her feelings to me and hopes that I feel that in return. It angers me that even though she knows I am not like that, she still shows her feelings towards me, which obviously (probably in any friendship) would drive a tiny wedge between the two friends. The above is just an explanation of what a real friend in this situation feels. I hope this is not what your friend will feel when and if you confess to her.
Your male friend must know what a lesbian's lifestyle is and he must feel if he loves you enough he can change who you are. You have to communicate properly by spending sometime alone and letting him know the truth.
Well I am a lesbian myself and i wasnt until i just fell in love with my best friend who is the best i mean we have so much things in common and so much more! Who cares what people say about you as long as your best friend loves you everything is okay:) ! So go for it girl just GO for it!