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The only way to know is to ask her. Or better yet, giver her some space, and let her come to you.

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Q: How do you know if your best friend is a lesbian?
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What do you do if you think your best friend is a lesbian?

As long as your friend has just been a good friend to you and has not tried to entice you into a lesbian relationship then her sexual preference should not stop you from being friends. Being best friends means you stand up for each other so if you are afraid that being with your best friend who is a lesbian may rub off on you (a myth) or that your other friends may think you are a lesbian because you hang out with her then stand strong and don't let a good friend get away because of their sexual preference. If you are not sure they are a lesbian then continue on with the friendship and stop guessing as to whether she is a lesbian or not. Society has a bad habit of labeling people with the wrong label. Example: Your best friend hangs out with only women and you don't see her date. This does not necessarily mean she is a lesbian, but could simply be shy or is not ready to date because she hasn't found the right person.


How can you change your friend from being a lesbian?

You don't. Your friend either already is one, or is not and will not be one. Now, it is possible she is a lesbian, but is not letting people know this. If you really are best friends, you would be in the position to know how to approach her in a supportive way.


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If you are a lesbian and you have a best friend that acts a lot like she is a lesbian and you like her what do you do?

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