How do you know if she has the hots for you?

Answer 1

Strike up a small conversation:

This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future. If you like a girl, don't let her slip away, tell her the truth, but if you don't like her and she told you that she does, don't say anything, it can break her heart. And when she tells you that and you don't like her, tell her that she's a great person. Girls like it when boys say they like something they did or said you're great at something. All girls are different, so be aware of the signs. Listen to the tone of her voice: if she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little more soft, shy and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping), adjusting her clothes, and might stare at you. Another sign she likes you is if she laughs at only your boring or stupid joke. (Though, don't use bad jokes as a test, or you'll risk looking like a comedy dork.) She may not be able to look you straight in the eye and she might giggle a lot because she is thinking of funny, nice gossip.

Watch for signs of flirting:

If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Flirting girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends, and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Although some girls have no idea they are flirting. Most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirting ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. Either way, don't "flirt around". Do not flirt with other girls. If she ever sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hugging you, she may jump to conclusions and assume she doesn't mean anything to you. And she has nothing you like or she doesn't act the way you like girls.

Notice if she "accidentally" bumps into you more often than what people do (she's obviously trying to touch you or feel how strong or soft you are):

If she finds excuses to do so, then you're probably on the right track. Tell her it was ok and you're fine. But conversely, don't assume that she doesn't like you because her fall didnt touch you. She may be too nervous of you to touch you yet. Break the touch barrier yourself.

Observe how she looks at you:

If she likes you, she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it means she is nervous but she still likes you. Some girls might just be staring so don't think she loves you and wants to kiss. But if she holds the stare, and you see love in her eyes, then she is confident and she may make the first move. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she likes you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction

Look at her friends:

If you see most of her friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling, this means that she is telling her friends about you. If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" Her friends might be making it up, however, just to tease her. So you should probably listen to stuff like, "stop teasing me!" or "be quiet! He might hear!!" When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden. This likely means you were the subject of the recently ended conversation. If she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random conversation about things such as: Who would you rather date me or (her name), who do you like better, who is the hottest, would you marry (her name) or me, etc. If they name a list of about 3 people and her name is in the list, she probably told her friends about you and they're trying to search for clues to see how you feel about her.

Look out for the damsel in distress:

If you're outside and the girl you like is nearby and starts loudly saying "I'm cold!", that's a subtle hint that she wants you to give her your sweater. This is a very sweet gesture, especially if you want to show the girl that you like her. If there are other guys and she likes one of those guys, however, she might act disappointed when you offer yours to her first, look for her mad and tell her that who ever she likes gave it to him to give it to her. In which case at least you'll know how she feels and can move on. Sometimes a girl will pretend to be really bad at something, and say that they can't do it. That is your chance to offer some assistance, and she will most likely be doing this on purpose just to see your reaction.

Smile at her:

Do a natural smile - don't freak her out. If she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away, she is obviously freaked out by you. If she returns a soft or big smile and continues to look at you, then she is interested. If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her friends and hides in the group then she may be nervous and curious if you know that she likes you.

Answer 2

Look for signs such as prolonged eye contact, initiating physical touch, asking personal questions, or showing genuine interest in your life. Pay attention to her body language and see if she mirrors your movements or leans in when talking to you. Ultimately, the best way to find out is to communicate openly and honestly about your feelings with her.

Answer 3

That is complicated

1. Is the girl asking friends with the girl she is asking about.

2.Does she not like her.

3.Is she 'hot'

4.Is she not 'hot'

For 1. answer something with yes she is pretty, DO NOT USE HOT, but I don't like her like that.

For 2. Not really I don't really like her like that so. DO NOT BADMOUTH HER, because then the girl asking will assume you do that with all girls even her. Or "maybe but I don't look at her like that."

For 1. and 3. Same answer as first but stress that you don't like her like that becasue if she actually is 'hot' then the girl asking you will assume you like her becasue she is well aware if she is considered 'hot or not' she is just seeing if you think she is or if you like her.

For1. and 4. Stress personality, that her personality helps her but that she is fairly pretty, EVEN IF SHE IS TERRIFINGLY UGLY.

For 2. and 3. Stress you don't like her but she is pretty, same reason as 1and3 they know if they are hot if you lie they will not like you, but that you don't like something about her,like her laugh, or the way she talks about people this is the best one because girls love it when you tell them that you don't like the way she, if the girl doesn't like her, talks about people. They love it when you agree with them on gossip.

For 2. and 4. Flat out tell her no and that you don't like her like that but never badmouth.

Rules

1. Never badmouth another girl

2. Don't agree with the one asking you always they could be testing you

3. Never lie

4. Never make her feel like you like her

5. Always stress you don't like something about them once again the way they talk about other people works best.

6. If you don't know what the girl asking thinks about her JUST SAY I DON'T KNOW

I DON'T LOOK AT HER THAT WAY.

Answer 4

well one way is if they act shy around you. this means there at a loss for words and dont know what to say when you look at them..

Answer 5

Well she'll probably be staring at you alot (more then nessicary..if it ever is nessicary) And asking other people about you.

Answer 6

thankyou