How do you know how a girl feels?

Answer 1

Love is the feeling when you feel a certain urge to comfort or care for one particular person. It is definitely possible during the early teen years to find a 'lover' or 'crush'. In order to distract a teen/pre-teen from his/her everyday life it so happens when boys and girls develop love for each other and feel the need to be together and be close. You know you are in love during these years when you are always staring at him and you are so nervous around him you can't bear to talk to him. It is also possible for young teens to learn how to flirt and experience peculiar mannerisms toward the opposite gender. All in all, to tell him how you feel there are a couple of ways. One way is going straight up to him and saying, "I'm madly in love with you kiss me!" But that is going a bit fast. What I'd do if I was in your shoes is to make friendly conversation and become friends and if you feel nothing has happened and you don't think he feels the same way, maybe it's time to put this one to sleep. You shouldn't waste time on someone who's not interested. Also there are many other guys out there to look for and if you're twelve you have PLENTY of time to find a guy.

Let's Get Real!

First of all, "being in love" is not like turning on a light switch. It's not like being in the dark at one time and then, the next moment, you're in a bright light. "Being in love" is a Hollywood invention! It is a visceral - instinctive, like an impulse - feeling that gives you a high and that makes you believe that that boy or man is the one, the only one.

At twelve that feeling can be easily misunderstood. For it is a similar feeling to being held in ones mother's arms. It is a similar feeling to shooting down a rollercoaster. For it is a high that simply means that you are reacting to the unexpected, to a turn-on that seems to put you into a different world.

Yes, you're lonesome and you want to connect. But be certain that in the connection you make, the other party to the connection does not take advantage of your innocent responses.

When you can't stop thinking about the guy you really like. And if i were you. I wouldn't tell him at the age of 12. you should tell him in 7th grade. u wont have any luck at the age of 12. look 4 sings that he likes. then tell him how you really feel

Its all about life experience and maturity.

I honestly dont think that at age 12, anyone has enough maturity to know what love is. The only way to know what love is, is to have LIFE EXPERIENCE. This is something you dont have when your twelve - no matter who you are. You SHOULDNT be thinking of these things at twelve - because you dont know if you love him or not. These are things that will come later in life, when you more mature, and have experience. And like a previous post, people have a distorted illusion of what love is. Its a feeling, and more of a state of mind. If you suddenly declare you love someone, and devote your life to them, you will be throwing your life down the drain. You need to get out, live, and see the truth for yourself before you say your in love. Anouther thing to consider is that people DRAMATICALLY change during puberty, and you're only starting to or havent went through that yet. It is very, very likely that once you and him start gowing through puberty, you will both change and grow apart as well.

Another view

Love is, first off, unconditional. You cannot love someone if you do not know their faults, because to love someone is to know and accept faults, and love in spite of them. Lust and longing are very different from love, and a 12-year-old is not mature enough to recognize the difference. Neither is a 7th grader.

A 12 year old's advice

Ok, first all, do you know if you really like him that way? Maybe you should get to know him before you tell him you love him. If you see him alone, walk up to him, tell him your name, then make some small talk. Questions like "So, what do you like to do after school?" are good. Listen to his answers and try to find some things in common.Maybe you both like Video Games, sports, drawing, etc.. Once you get to know him a little more and you're not just some randomgirl he just met, maybe you could invite him to hang out some time. Basically what I'm saying is for now you should probably juststay in the friend zone. Once you two are a little older maybe you can take things to the next level. And remember, if he acts mean to you don't keep chasing after him. Just accept the fact he doesn't like you and move on with life.

Answer 2

Technically, you can't know how a girl is feeling, unless you are a girl. We as girls have different hormones as guys so it is different as to what we feel and what a guy feels. You can ask her and try and have a nice conversation with her to get an understanding, but you can't know exactly how a girl is feeling. Try talking to her.

Answer 3

The best way to know how a girl feels is by openly and actively listening to her words, observing her body language, and paying attention to her emotions. It's important to communicate openly and directly with her, ask questions, and validate her feelings. Building trust and empathy in the relationship will also help you understand her emotions better.