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Keep your composure and don't put any thoughts of actually harming the father.
Or even talk of harming the father. That should be the last thing on both your minds though you want to.
Especially if your friend is young and is close to her father or was before this happened.
As a mother, it is not easy to find out that your man is cheating let alone the kids to find out. I don't care how old the kids are, they could be adults, it still hurts to know that the dad that they knew growing up is now cheating on their mom and they trusted him completely, now that trust is broken and gone.
All you can do is console and tell your friend It hurts and there is no getting over it, but your mom has to find out on her own.
You cannot do anything about it.
Maybe he or she can discuss with dad about it, if he is level headed, he may also tell your friend, is it really any of your business? And be a little mad of it that they are asking at all or bringing it up with dad.
It can work both ways on that.
But communication with a child and father is the best.
And the daughter or son needs to communicate NICELY, don't walk in in a huff and start accusing and going off into a rant and such.. maybe start out with you know dad we have always discussed things (if they have) and we have always stated we would trust each other and be open all the time with each other (again if they are)
But don't come in stating how you know this and that and it is not right to mom etc..
Just have your friend be calm.. and I know it is not easy to do this and may be asking a lot.. but you won't get any answers, your friend won't if you just barge into dad's den and/or office or whatever and start a blame tactic.
But it hurts and it hurts tremendously and to feel betrayed as well by dad.
If mom don't know it may be best she find out on her own, not through the kids. As then there will be the denial and the disbelief that this is happening and may not cause a good scenario for the kids either.
She may not believe the children at all and then of course dad will deny it as well. So it is not a good thing to do..
But for the most part console and ask how things are going for your friend and support your friend all you can. Get them out of the house as much as you can. Just don't do anything that would harm the dad and/or you friend either.
It's important to listen and provide emotional support to your friend. Encourage them to seek professional help like therapy or counseling to process their emotions. Offer to accompany them to seek help or to provide resources for support groups for children of parents who cheat.
* You must have proof that your father is cheating and if you have then you need to sit down with your father and tell him you know all about it. There isn't much more you can do about it than that and your father will have to decide what is the right thing to do.
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Your friend just overherd her mom talking to her dad about having a 3sum what do you tell her And she found out her moms cheating on her dad?
Tell dat hoe.
I hate my friend she just uses me to do anything but when I ask her for help she just bes mean to me and she tries to make up a story and then she didn't help me but her dad is my dads friend?
Why are you even her friend? She doesn't deserve to be your friend if she does that to you. Just because her dad is your dad's friend doesn't mean she hass to be your friend.
If I help a friend in level up his zoo in the game 'Zoo World' on Facebook is it considered as cheating?
No way!!! Why would it be cheating??? I help out my friends and family on Zoo World Every Single Day!!!!!!!!!
Guys - would you tell your best friend you are cheating on your wife?
Yes. He is your friend. BUT, only so you can try to be as honest with yourself as possible. It might help get to the roots of the cheating. You don't like being all mixed up about this, do you now..
What do you do when you find out that your mom is cheating on your dad?
blackmail her for anything you want get it then tell your dad
Is it cheating if you have a boyfriend and a friend with benefits?
it depends, if you have a friend with benefits that you makout and ect, yes it is cheating BUT, if you have a frend with benefits but you dont do anything sexual then no its not cheating
Friend is cheating?
ANSWER:If this friend of your is married, then what you need to do is talk to your friend so he or she will realize cheating will not make his or her life better.
What is the origin of refuge?
Your mom, she had sex and is cheating on you dad!
In the secret life of the American teenager whos amys dad cheating on her mom with?
Amy's dad, George, is cheating on Amy's mom with Adrian's mother, the flight attendant.
Jumble of word dad is?
If you jumble the letters in 'dad', you will have add or dad (Hey, I reversed the original order of the letters, that's not cheating!).
How do you know if your dad is cheating?
when he takes off of work all the time and if he never helps around the house he is cheating
What is the Disney movie called where the teenager's dad dies and they think he's a ghost and later the teen and their friend help ghost's cross over?
ghost dad
