Well, personally, Im a 14 year old boy and havnt had it yet, but my older brother has and heres what he said about it. You need to look good. And have good breath. You should have like tic tacs in your pocket or gum(make sure its minty). Take her out on a amazing date(try being creative and not do the cheesy movie thing. For me, I'm going to take her on a picnic before the sunset.) Give her a compliment when you pick her up, during your date, and when your walking her home. Dress nice and dont look slobby. When your walking her home, talk about yourself(not to much) and then when she talks, listen and really LISTEN, not think football scores in your head. Then take her to her doorstep and dont talk to loud but dont whisper. And this is going to sound wierd, but try wearing lip balm. It makes your lips hard to resist. Then tell her how beautiful she looks in the moonlight or sun. Then look into her eyes and put your arms around her waist just above her lower back then lean in for the kiss. If she kisses you back, great. But be prepared for the worst. If she says she cant or something, DONT ask why, just say i understand. And then thank her for a wonderfull night. She'll kiss you eventually. But make sure to practice with like, using your hand. I hope this works for you. Good luck.;)
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I think the best place to have a first kiss if just alone with you and your partner. You don't have to show everyone that you kiss. Maybe kiss after he or she drops you off from dinner. Or a walk on the beach. Try not to have your first kiss with parents or friends around. You could feel pressure.
Make sure there is mutual consent and the right timing. Take it slow and start with gentle and soft kisses before progressing to deeper ones. Pay attention to your partner's cues and be present in the moment.
I haven't had mine yet, I'm waiting for the right guy (I'm a girl). Just wait for the right person. Wait until your ready and their ready.