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OpinionYou could ask her, for one. "Having a lesbian friend" isn't really important--if she has one, it doesn't mean she's a lesbian herself. If you have one, it doesn't have anything to do with her.

If you don't feel comfortable asking your wife if she's a lesbian, you could either investigate yourself or hire a private detective. On the other hand, you could make love to her and learn to appreciate what you have, without worrying about the sexual orientation of her friends. If she is indeed lesbian (or bisexual) and chooses to "follow that path," presumably she'll let you know.

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So heres the deal, your wifes not a lesbian, had she been, then you wouldn't even be married to her. But heres the SUPER awesome news, she COULD be bi-curious or bisexual. If i were you id bring this up sometime in a one on one conversation with her, relationships thrive off of being open to each other.

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Some lesbians do get married, whether or not they realize that they are beforehand. The only way you're going to get to know the truth is if she tells you. Unless she says that she is a lesbian or otherwise attracted to women, you can't assume either way. This is a sticky subject.

As for her having lesbian friends, would you also assume that she was cheating if you believed her 100% heterosexual and had male friends? Just because she pulls away sexually doesn't mean she's a lesbian, and it also doesn't mean she'll necessarily cheat on you. Communication is what you need.

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