How do you determine what someone else truly wants for Christmas or their birthday without asking them?

Answer 1

Pay attention to their social media feeds

Answer 2

I always keep my ears open all year round to what people say and somewhere in conversations they will want something. Also, you can ask someone else close to them such as a brother, sister or parents. Tell them you want the gift to be special. You could trick this person as well and in one of your conversations tell them some of the things you would like and then ask them what they really wished they had. It's a ways until Christmas so I highly doubt they will suspect, but don't do this if their birthday is just around the corner. If it's your boyfriend, pay attention to things like: do they love a certain sport such as fishing, Surfing, etc., and then go to a sports shop and get some suggestions for a gift. If it's a female when you go shopping at a mall with her pay attention to what her likes or dislikes are and most women I know will ALWAYS comment on what they really like. If this person really loves you they will appreciate anything you give out of love (or should.) My husband and I had many struggles when younger and making a life for ourselves and sometimes Christmas' or birthdays were pretty lean, but what we'd do is make a romantic dinner for each other with some wine, get that bubble bath going with candles all around the tub and romance on! Once I got one single red rose during a very hard time in our marriage when we were in our late 20s and I dried that rose and kept it. You can give a person a very expensive gift to show off, or, if you can't afford something and worked extra hours or gave up something of your own to present a smaller gift a good partner would realize this and cherish that gift. Good luck Marcy