How do ideas about femininity and masculinity get constructed?

Answer 1

First, physical evidence supports the differences--not just of ideas--but of scientific fundamental similarities and differences between male and female. Many of these traits can be influenced by family or society, but they are mostly innate. Femininity or masculinity is defined by the physical and chemical environment that influences the biological construct of ones existence. For instance, when a baby is born, it's either male or female, judging by the outward appearance. However, in the future, "It's a boy!" yet he may end up feeling like a female if not properly shown direction on how to actualize masculine abilities and generally keep testosterone flow pumping at a normal, balanced rate. This is a different question though. Simply put, masculinity is primarily the effect of testosterone on the brain, while femininity is the effect of estrogen. These chemicals balance the difference between the biological male or female. Here are some traits often associated with the influences thereof--

MASCULINITY: Physical -- thick-skin; thicker and often darker hair; longer and thicker muscle fibers; larger bone structure; deep voice; inclination toward utilization of only the left hemisphere of the brain, which controls logic, deductive reasoning, and mathematical as well as mechanical skills (this isn't to say men don't or can't use the other side, simply men are not naturally inclined to do so)

General Traits - With a common role as a Provider; Strength; Discipline; Endurance; Courage; Pride; Logic; Leadership; Confidence; Boldness; Fierceness; Toughness; Firmness; with a focus on activity Some traits such as excelling at sports, being abusive, fighting, Wrestling, being mean, having massive exploding muscles, or beating women are associated with the term "macho," which is not at all what makes a man "masculine."

FEMININITY: Physical -- soft-skin; thinner and often lighter bodily hair; smaller muscle fibers; smaller bone structure; high voice; utilization of both hemispheres of the brain at the same time, with a higher propensity to use the right hemisphere, which controls emotions, creativity, musical and artistic abilities. General Traits - With a common role as a Nurturer; Beauty; Tenderness; Emotional; Sensitivity; Awareness; Empathy; Shyness; Quietness; Humility; Care; Concern; Discernment; with a focus on relational development and relationshipsMany men are afraid to adopt some of these traits for fear of losing their pride; however, these traits can often aid a man in being a good father or husband.