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How do i tell my husband that i know about his secret relationship with a woman?
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∙ 15y ago
This is something that has to be done straight out, face to face, and try and keep your cool. Either way you two are going to have to talk about things to decide what is going to go on from that point. Listen to him as well as let him know how you feel - the best thing you can do is try and deal with this as maturily and calmly as possible as yelling, fighting and carrying on will not get this dealt with and put behind you as best as you can. You will have to decide if your going to stay together or seek counselling together and try to work on things. Just say you know what hes up to and you cant carry on like that anymore an you're ready to move on! This kind of situation is never easy. There will be the likelihood that tempers will flare, which never works at getting to the heart of the problem. Still, you really do need to confront him. It will not be easy, however you should try to approach him in as non-threatening a way as possible. You will have to use open, honest, sincere, and direction communication. Try not to let your emotions distract you from what is being said. Listen, digest, think about it, and try to respond in the most appropriate way. If he gets defensive (which he probably will get), angry, or ranting, just let him go on and do not respond. Let him wear himself out. Sometimes saying nothing initially will make him think about the consequences of his actions, or other things that may shed some light on the issue. As such, you will have to be ready for whatever the answer is. You will have to find out if the relationship is strictly platonic, or more personal, and will have to deal with it. If it turns out that the relationship is personal, sexual, etc., only you can make the decision if the marriage is worth saving. If it is personal, the question also will be, "can you live with it, and will you ever be able to trust him again."
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