How can you tell if your boyfriend is bored with you?

Answer 1

FIRST OF ALL! This is very important!! Talk to the guy and ask if he's bored with you. Don't beat around the bush, or you'll never get an answer from him. If you talk to him and he swears he's not bored with you, then believe him if he's a good boyfriend.

But as always, it depends upon the person, but here's some general signs that I know of (and not all may apply) (And of course, I'm not assuming your a boring person :) )

1.) He starts trying too hard in a really obvious way to find something entertaining for you to do together. Like he's searching for a way to not be bored with you.

2.) He hears you, but does not listen. Anyone can hear someone talk, but to be actually listening to you and show interest is another thing altogether.

3.) He's spending less time with you alone, and starts spending time with you and his friends together. That way, in his mind, he can be with you but not be bored.

4.) This kinda goes with #2, when you're talking, does he contribute to the conversation? or is he just sitting there like a bump on a log?

5.) The most obvious sign is that he's avoiding you. He'll call or talk every once in awhile, but he always manages to slip away or say he's got other things to do.

6.) He starts acting a little impatient. His actions are slightly hurried, or his tone seems urgent and anxious. Like he wants to be somewhere else.

7.) He starts recommending that you start changing your habits. Like maybe politely telling you to get your hair cut, or buys you a new style of shirt. Almost like he subconsciously wants to try and make you "not boring"