You have to make a conscious decision to not pursue him, as it is best for all parties involved. Even if his marriage isn't going well, the marriage has no chance with a third party butting in. If it were your husband, you'd want the space to repair the relationship.
Next, it will help if you can identify what it is about the man that you find appealing. Many women become interested in a married man for the way he treats his wife; you want her happiness and/or security. Perhaps, you like the bond you have as he confides in you. Sometimes men need to talk to someone about things that other men aren't interested in hearing about and are too touchy to discuss with the wife. Understand that bond would be with someone else if you were the significant other.
Whatever your reason for your attraction, identify it and look for similar qualities in available men.
beacuse a man just wants to have lots of sex
Hmm that is no bueno,but go with your feelings
Because he doesn't want to cheat on his wife >>>>> Answer: ....but he has been for three months. A little to late for that and to start feeling remorse. Could he have scared himself and trying to sort out his feelings?
You already know that married men are off limits even if the man pursues you. There is seldom a future with a married man. The best way to resist your feelings of love for this married man is to break it off with him and keep away from him. Eventually, you will meet someone else you will fall in love with.
If a woman is having an affair with a married man, and by doing so is endangering the stability of that man's family, she can be described as a home wrecker.
Forget it, he is a married man. Let your feelings for him go. If you care about him you would let him go. Forget it, he is a married man. Let your feelings for him go. If you care about him you would let him go. Forget it, he is a married man. Let your feelings for him go. If you care about him you would let him go.
No.
he was a better man for having attempted It.
just keep reminding him hes married
A married man who expects his mistress to just be friends is either unintelligent or has a high opinion of himself. Married men who cheat and have a mistress on the side generally use that mistress for a sexual relationship only, but some mistresses believe that the man truly loves her over his wife. The man should stop cheating and consider other people's feelings other than his own.
ANSWER:Good question, why in a world your doing this to yourself. Even if you know that he is already married you need to to stop, because you are hurting his wife who might know what the two of you are doing. Your ex knows that you will not say no to him because he knows your feelings, and right now can't you tell that this man can not be trusted because he was cheating on his wife? Stop before you ruin many lives, and if you don't care about this just think about what your family will say ans think of you.
He very likely just wanted some fun in his spare time because his wife doesn't do the job or does it bad, he used you to fill that whole in his life no matter how far you went, he just pretended so things would work the way he wanted them to. ANSWER: The first thing you did wrong is to have feelings for this married man. You were sober and thinking straight when you accept this man to become his lover. When a man is married and having affairs outside his marriage, you can be sure that he is only looking for the things that his wife is not giving to him, and you my dear are giving it to him. It's not to late for you to stop and back off from him. This man will never make you his first priority, think about it..