You really can't. Sometimes you just don't want sex. With my son, I didn't want to be touched. The idea of sex just made me want to barf. With this pregnancy I have been completely the opposite, wanting sex constantly. This is because the increased blood flow to the vagina. Sometimes it makes you want it more because of increased sensitivity. Other times it's too much increased sensitivity and you'll want it less. You can try foreplay that turns you on--whether it's a naughty video or romantic dining with cuddles afterwards. Experiment and find what does it for you. If nothing does, I promise your sex drive is only gone temporarily.
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