How can you get your husband to make love to you?

Answer 1

Since me and my husband both have been working, and the kids are now walking,talking, ect.... sex has been happening less often. I found a trick thou.... "im hot" and ill sleep naked with the sheet bearly on me. i usually go to bed like an hour before him but hewill be all of a sudden waking me up "cause you moved a certain way and he saw my goodies" try it

Answer 2

Pleasing your wife sexually has many parts. I recently ended a relationship because he couldn't please me sexually. First, what seems to be your problem. Do you ejaculate too quickly? Do you consider yourself small, average, etc? This will help to determine what may be wrong. The man I was seeing ejaculated to quickly. It was the most horrible thing. Unfortunately, we never discussed the issue. One thing I can tell you is your wife really loves you. It seems she has brought this issue to your attention. Expressing to a man he doesn't satisfy your sexually is really difficult for both parties. With that being said. Are you meeting her emotional needs? For most women when our emotional needs are being met so are our sexual needs. Do she feel secure in your presence? Security emotional, physically, and financially is really huge for women. Are you watching your body movements for signs of pleasure. I find the more talking, screaming, and interacting women do during sex it seems to be more dissatisfying. We are taught how to perform to give a man the impression it's good. Most men mistake those actions as good. Don't get me wrong they can be signs of pleasure. However, if you are not pulling your weight in other areas you should questioned her actions. Once, you reach the bedroom it should an extension of the emotional relationship you have. The best sex I have ever had was with men who I felt protected by. I didn't realize this until my last relationship the man seems weak as a man. My other relationships we interacted in special ways. We had fun together. They were secure in knowing they could care for me. My last relationship the man appeared to be barely taking care of himself. See, for women it's more about the emotional needs being met. Not saying this isn't true of men, but that's where we start. I don't totally blame my ex in his inability to please me sexually. Truth be told I wasn't really that in to him. He was a great guy. He probably had a lot of offer we just weren't on the same page. The reason I mentioned the last part is because both partners share in the responsibility of being sexually satisfied. It's your responsibility to ensure you are doing the things she desires. It's her responsibility to let you know when you are hitting the mark. It's also her responsibility to let you know when you are not. What I can say is she is still in the game. You would be amazed of how many women date and marry men that don't satisfy them. We do that because love outweighs our need to be sexually satisfied. But, after some time being dis-satisfied sexually leads to emotional problems in the relationship. Hope this helps. The next time I'm with a man that doesn't satisfy me sexually we will be discussing the issue.

Answer 3

Think of crazy things. For the letter "A" you need a food, a place and a person. Apples, Arkansas, John Adams. Burgers, Boston, Bob Marley. Cheese, Calgary, Carl Lewis. Girls don't understand this stuff. Good luck man.

Answer 4

Communication is key in any relationship. Talk to your husband openly and honestly about your desires and feelings. Listen to his perspective and try to understand his reasons for not being intimate. Seek couples therapy if needed to address any underlying issues affecting your relationship.