no offence but saying something like "call me if u hot........lol" even in a joking way is what makes girls ask this question. i know i do and it is because of ppl like that. The only advice i can give you is to just be yourself ( i know that sounds corny but there is no use trying to live a lie) and just hang in there he will come around eventually. Also remember you aren't alone... trust me.
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