How can you find a cuckold husband?

Answer 1

The best way is going to be to advertise on the internet through fetish dating sites like alt.com and cuckold community sites like cuckoldplace.com.

People ted to be private, even secretive about their fetishes for obvious reasons and cuckolding carries more social sigma and opprobrium than many of them. So to find someone into it, you need to go where they do and where confidences can be safely shared.

For live face-time you should try the local fetish scene. See about a club or munches (gatherings of BDSM folk.) Not all cuckolds are into the whole leather and chains thing, but since being a cuckold is a form of masochism many do find themselves drawn to the BDSM scene.

In terms of keeping a look out in your daily life and conventional meeting/dating (not as effective a strategy) here is what to look for as markers of potential cucky-ness:

- Shy or nervous about women. (Guys you need to make the moves with.) This does not always mean introverted or socially awkward. Many a "big man on campus" kind of outgoing popular guy is terrified of women and has trouble dating.

- Talks to women a lot, but is always their friend - never seems to ask them out or make a move.

- Overly sensitive or defensive about their masculinity.

- A bit desperate to please attractive females.

- Sensitive to the plight of outsiders.

- Domineering or forbidding mother.

Of course none of these things guarantees that they will have formed a cuckold fetish, but they are flags you can watch for. Ultimately, what you need to do is to find out by getting guys to share their kinky fantasies with you. This can be tricky because they will be afraid that if they do you will reject them, but they will be so bursting to have a woman to understand that they will be conflicted. It might be best for you to bring it up. Steer a conversation to fetishes in general, and from their to BDSM humiliation fetishes. Tell them you think it is hot. They will feel more comfortable 'fessing up then. Bring up cuckolding directly and say you think it is hot and see if they do too.

Two things you have going for you:

- Submissive male kinksters are generally desperate to find women they can open up, they are just too afraid to without coaxing.

- They want to be coaxed and love to be interrogated as long as it is in a manner that makes them feel safe - that you aren't going to reject them over it. (Being naked in bed is good. Make them horny. They will be more willing to risk honest answers to your questions then.)